Something in modern life has always felt slightly… off. Like moving into a brand-new house only to realize the builders forgot to install closets. Everything looks fine, but the longer you stay, the more you sense something is missing.
By the late 20th century, a growing number of people felt that “missing piece” in their lives. Sure, they had jobs, marriages, and mortgages - but there was an existential void nothing seemed to fill. That itch created the perfect breeding ground for magical thinking. And in the 1980s and 90s, boy, did it flourish.
Heaven’s Gate lured followers into trading their earthly existence for a seat on a comet. The Branch Davidians in Waco promised a new Eden… right up until the FBI showed up. Scientology perfected its knack for extracting cash in exchange for “the next level of enlightenment”.
Meanwhile, the “lighter” spiritual scene was booming too. Remember the Y2K panic? Some folks stockpiled canned beans and generators; others bought crystals the size of a watermelon to “stabilize Earth’s energy grid.”
Late-night infomercials thrived, selling everything from healing pyramids to subliminal cassette tapes that promised to attract wealth while you slept. (Minor spoiler: the only people getting rich were the ones selling the tapes.)
Fast forward a couple decades, and the era of matching tracksuits has given way to something slicker and more Instagram-friendly: angel numbers.
Suddenly, the universe was less a vengeful enforcer and more a spiritual pen pal, sliding little notes into your day via clocks, receipts, or license plates. See 11:11 on your phone? Clearly, the universe is blessing your choice of reheated pizza. Spot 333 on a billboard? Your soulmate is on their way or maybe it's just your Uber Eats driver that will arrive soon.
Doreen Virtue built an empire as the self-proclaimed decoder of these cosmic text messages, assuring millions that angels were whispering through digits. Her books, cards, and workshops made the practice mainstream. Ironically, she later denounced the whole system when she converted to the Episcopal Church in 2017. It was as if the inventor of Monopoly suddenly declared: “Actually, property speculation is evil. Please stop playing.”
Here’s the thing: there’s nothing wrong with noticing patterns; our brains are wired to do it. It’s the same reason we see faces in clouds or swear we heard our phone buzz when it didn’t. But the leap from “fun coincidence” to “divine instruction manual” is where magical thinking really takes the wheel.
Here’s the inconvenient truth: taking action works. Not cosmic, glitter-dusted, unicorn-approved action - just the regular, boring kind: updating your CV, calling your friends back, or saving money instead of spending $200 on a crystal pyramid meant to “align your abundance frequency.”
A positive mindset helps, but mindset without movement is like buying a treadmill to use as a coat rack: technically empowering, but practically useless.
Magical thinking thrives because it gives a playful sense of control your inner child loves. Spotting numbers and symbols feels safer than wrestling with anxiety and uncertainty. And sure, it can be a fun wink from your subconscious, a reminder to pause, reflect, and keep going, but the real change comes from what you do next (and if you're unsure, check what numbers mean in the Expanded Numerology eBook).
And if you’re still waiting for the universe to send you a sign, this is it 😉
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